The female erogenous zones remain a mystery for most men. In fact, if you asked most women they probably wouldn't be able to name all twelve. Which makes it even more powerful when you start touching her like no lover has before.
So let's take a closer look...
Number #1 - Hair and Scalp
Massaging a woman's scalp and running your fingers through a woman's hair releases endorphins which are feel good chemicals. This means you should pay particular attention to stroking and playing with her hair when you're kissing. Just one example of what separates a great kisser from just another guy.
You can also gently tug on her hair to create the same sensations. Do this by gripping from the roots and gently closing your fist into a ball. This is also a neat trick when you're locked in a passionate kissing embrace.
Number #2 - Ears
A woman's ears are filled with sensitive nerve endings that will have moaning in pleasure if you do it right. I find the sensitivity varies from woman to woman but the ones that love it really love it. You can lick and nibble around the outer ear but I generally find her earlobes will give the best effect.
It's important to remember that things in your ear are LOUD. So try to keep your tongue out of the inner ear, don't slobber and try not to breathe or blow too hard into her ear. The easiest way to remember this is have an excited woman start licking your ears and then you'll know just how pleasure can turn into... weirdness.
Number #3 - Lips
Women love to be kissed... when it's done right! And being a good kisser is basically a prerequisite for being a good lover so it's something you should work on. I've found many girls turn to putty when they find out you know how to kiss... which has left them excited and ready to go when we got to the bedroom.
Trying to explain how to be a great kisser could take all day. I should know... it ended up being an entire chapter in my own book. But for now the biggest tip is to be gentle and loving while still being firm.
No woman likes a weak kiss but they don't want you to hurt their face either. The next time you watch a James Bond movie pay attention for some clues.
Number #4 - Neck
Most of you should have worked out this one by now. Pay particular attention to her jawbone and about 3 inches below her ears.
Number #5 - Hands and Arms
This not the most sensitive area on a women but definitely one to remember if you want to show your skill as a lover. Try sucking her fingers and paying particular attention to inside her elbows.
Number #6 - Back
Run your tongue all the way up her spine to make her shiver and don't forget the back of her neck. This always gives you more opportunity to play with her hair and combine the next area.
Number #7 - Buttocks
Now some women might be a little uncomfortable with how up close and personal you're getting down there but you need to gauge that for yourself. If approached with sensitivity you shouldn't have any problems. A massage is always a good start.
Number #8 - Stomach
This can be a tricky one is she's ticklish. Try licking and nibbling the area and see how much you can get away with before she erupts in a fit of giggles. It's also a good way point on your way further south.
Number #9 - Legs
I really like playing with a woman's legs. The first reason being that once you go down this way she's expecting you to just dive on in. Playing with her legs is a great way to show how much control you have.
My personal favourites are behind the knees and her inner thighs. The inner thighs in particular are a great place to tease her.
Number #10 - Feet
I'm a big fan of sucking on toes and I find most women are too. Providing they're not feeling self-conscious about smelly feet. This is a good one to save for after getting out of the shower.
Number #11 - Breasts
Yes - we had to get to them eventually - and this does mean you get to play with them now. But remember to kiss and lick the entire breast and not just the nipples. Again this is a fun place to start teasing.
Number #12 - Genitals
We finally arrived but don't forget to keep teasing.
I hope this has been a quick insight into the female erogenous zones and how important they are. By paying just a little bit more attention to a woman's body we can all become better lovers. And the better we are... the more they appreciate us... it's a win/win for all parties.
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